Gods word
God’s word is the only medicine to heal any Christian or Christian marriage. All the fancy degrees, skill talk, or experience is meaningless unless God’s word is at the center of the conversation. What does the word of God say about Christian marriages? It is very specific and one of the main topics in my […]
Think Like a Christian
Christians and non-Christians have something in common, we were all given environmental conditioning from our caregivers. To think differently than something we saw growing up takes knowing God intimately. God’s word encourages us to see things differently, therefore we think different, and thus we act differently in the short and long term. Christian marriages need […]
Get Along
Getting along is a fairly simple request by the Apostle Paul, all Christians should heed this simple request. In a world of so much division it is somewhat sad that a focal point of Christian counseling is to beg others to get along with each other. The gospel promotes the fruit of the Spirit and […]
Environment
Christian counseling is a busy business, unfortunately there are a lot of toxic marriages in our damaging culture. Many times the environment that the couple lives in creates a difficult experience for them to get along and communicate effectively. Christian marriage counseling and coaching teaches couples how to communicate better, resolve conflict quicker, and have […]
Spirit Led
Christian counseling helps refocus believers to the path that they are meant to follow, the path of the Spirit. Many times we are challenged daily by the fleshly path and many temptations are sometimes hard to maneuver around. Christian marriage counseling is even harder because we are blending 2 peoples desires and temptations together. However, […]
Prayer
Don’t get me wrong, prayer is essential, but there comes a time when praying should take a back seat to obedience! Christian counseling centers around obeying God’s word, it tells us exactly how to act and behavior is a reflection of our obedient love to God. A hallmark of Christian marriage counseling is the ability […]
Stress
Christian counseling helps couples and individuals run their race in front of them with the endurance of Scripture. Biblical counseling focuses on the Scriptures for answers to all of life’s dilemmas, especially stress. How we approach stress is largely how we approach life. Stress is cosmic, it is everywhere, it is how we respond to […]
Caring
When seeking help in a Christian marriage counseling setting one of the exercises is to focus on being others-focused. To submit in the Bible actually means to be others focused. Biblical counseling help to outline the correct Scriptures for couples and individual Christians to study, learn and grow from. Christian counseling is more than just […]
Listen
Christian marriage counseling usually begins with the 6 steps to better communication. It seems like every Christian counseling session I do these days there is a poor communicator at play. The Bible tells us exactly how to communicate, stay calm, listen and other steps. Biblical counseling centers around teaching others how to communicate better, and […]
Scripture
Christian counseling is obviously rooted in Scripture, and Biblical counseling is 100% rooted in Scripture. I believe that every single dilemma that we face today can be addresses through the Scriptures. God tells Joshua exactly what to do and I believe we should all take a page out the book of Joshua. Meditate, or think, […]